Is it for you?

Divorce is a highly personal matter, and no one approach is right for everyone. Many couples, however, have found that mediation is a desirable alternative to the potentially destructive aspects of the conventional divorce process.

Mediation may be right for you if you believe the values listed below are important:

• Maintaining an atmosphere of mutual respect through the divorce process--even in the presence of disagreements.
• Prioritizing the needs of children.
• Working creatively and cooperatively to solve issues.
• Putting aside the frustration and pain of the present moment to plan productively for your future.
• Behaving in an ethical manner toward your spouse and expecting the same in return.
• Keeping control of the divorce process with you and your spouse, and not relegating it to the court system.

Mediation is not appropriate for every couple. It is important to understand that the mediator must remain neutral and not give independent advice to either you or your spouse.

Find a mediator

The Connecticut Council for Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Practice offers this free searchable database to locate a mediator. This list includes individuals from the legal, mental health and financial professions.

You can search the list right here on the web site, or call us at 888-236-CCDM (2236) for a list of divorce professionals near you, as well as additional information on how mediation can help you.

The Connecticut Council for Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Practice relies on its members to provide updated information for their listings. We can not guarantee complete accuracy, however we believe the information to be correct.